Tag: communication

  • Sorry, What Did You Say?

    Sorry, What Did You Say?

    Whether you are running a meeting in the office or sending an email to a client, your focus is to share valuable and important information. Unfortunately, there can be a huge difference between what you believe you’ve communicated and what your audience remembers. As a professional intervening in an expert quality, the last thing you want is people asking you to repeat what you’ve just said. 

    First of all, let’s cut the audience some slack. People are never actively trying to ignore communication. There could be a variety of reasons why they are not able to recall information. However, intentional inattention is never one of them. When the audience forgets your message, it could be because they are already mentally drained or experiencing technical issues that affect the good message delivery. Yet more often than not, the audience is not at fault. Here are 4 things you could do to improve your communication style and help people remember information. 

    Communication falls into two distinct categories, being synchronous or asynchronous. According to this source, these communication types fulfill different purposes. For instance, synchronous communication means real-time such as asking a work-related question to a coworker. On the other hand, asynchronous communication introduces a time lag between the message and the response. The delay is necessary as it provides plenty of time for your interlocutor to digest the information and come back to you. Choosing the wrong method to convey your message can make it hard to assimilate. 

    Time is of the essence

    Human beings have a limited attention span. If you organize an important meeting to share new information, you need to consider people’s natural concentration ability. Indeed, according to studies, people can digest information effectively when it is presented in 7 minute chunks. In other words, if your meeting is too long or if you try to share too much over a long period of time, your audience is unlikely to remember anything. Additionally, it’s best practice to time information so that you can capture everyone’s attention. If you say it too early in the meeting, for instance, late participants could miss it. Too late, and people may not be paying attention anymore. Ideally, you want to announce the big news, accompany your audience to the detail of the big news, and finally repeat it once again at the end. 

    Don’t mix topics

    You can’t kill two birds with one stone. Whether you are sending emails or organizing meetings, you need to stick to one main topic per agenda. Mixing topics that are not related in your communication will lead to confusion for a variety of reasons:

    • The audience doesn’t see a logical link between the different topics, 
    • The audience tends to remember the last thing they’ve heard or read (meaning, they forget the first topic), 
    • The communication lacks structure

    You are sharing conflicting information

    This can happen because you are discussing a constantly evolving topic. Therefore, yesterday’s audience may have received different information compared to today’s audience. Additionally, you should research each topic ahead. If you don’t understand the message, your audience will soon forget it. 

    As a communicator, it is your responsibility to understand how to avoid mistakes that encourage forgetfulness. Making it easy for your audience to understand, remember, and use the information you share begins with you. Do the hard work to bring the message in the clearest and most digestible way to your audience. 



  • 10 Ways to Empower Your Communication

    10 Ways to Empower Your Communication

    There is so much to know about conversation that anyone, even I, could ever realize. You can go though watching talk shows; radio programs; clubs dedicated to public speaking; ordinary conversations; certain rules still apply when it comes to interaction through words. It may sound tedious, I know, but even though it’s your mouth that’s doing the work, your brain works twice as hard to churn out a lot of things you know. So what better way to start learning to be an effective communication is to know the very person closest to you: yourself.

    1. What you know.
      Education is all about learning the basics, but to be an effective speaker is to practice what you’ve learned. My stint as guest at every Toastmasters’ meeting I go to taught me that we all have our limitations, but that doesn’t mean we can’t learn to keep up and share what we know.
    2. Listening.
      It’s just as important as asking questions. Sometimes listening to the sound of our own voice can teach us to be a little bit confident with ourselves and to say the things we believe in with conviction.
    3. Humility
      We all make mistakes, and sometimes we tend to slur our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certain words even though we know what it means, but rarely use it only to impress listeners. So in a group, don’t be afraid to ask if you’re saying the right word properly and if they’re unsure about it then make a joke out of it. I promise you it’ll make everyone laugh and you can get away with it as well.
    4. Eye Contact
      There’s a lot to say when it comes to directing your attention to your audience with an eye-catching gaze. It’s important that you keep your focus when talking to a large group in a meeting or a gathering, even though he or she may be gorgeous.
    5. Kidding around
      A little bit of humor can do wonders to lift the tension, or worse boredom when making your speech. That way, you’ll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and they’ll feel that you’re just as approachable, and as human to those who listen.
    6. Be like the rest of them
      Interaction is all about mingling with other people. You’ll get a lot of ideas, as well as knowing what people make them as they are.
    7. Me, Myself, and I
      Admit it, there are times you sing to yourself in the shower. I know I do! Listening to the sound of your own voice while you practice your speech in front of a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And while you’re at it you can spruce up as well.
    8. With a smile
      A smile says it all much like eye contact. There’s no point on grimacing or frowning in a meeting or a gathering, unless it’s a wake. You can better express what you’re saying when you smile.
    9. A Role Model
      There must be at least one or two people in your life you have listened to when they’re at a public gathering or maybe at church. Sure they read their lines, but taking a mental note of how they emphasize what they say can help you once you take center stage.
    10. Preparation
      Make the best out of preparation rather than just scribbling notes and often in a hurried panic. Some people like to write things down on index cards, while other resort to being a little more silly as they look at their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). Just be comfortable with what you know since you enjoy your work.

    And that about wraps it up. These suggestions are rather amateurish in edgewise, but I’ve learned to empower myself when it comes to public or private speaking and it never hurts to be with people to listen how they make conversations and meetings far more enjoyable as well as educational.

  • 10 Ways to Empower your Communication

    You can go through watching talk shows; radio programs; clubs dedicated to public speaking; ordinary conversations; certain rules still apply when it comes to interaction through words. It may sound tedious, I know, but even though it’s your mouth that’s doing the work, your brain works twice as hard to churn out a lot of things you know. So what better way to start learning to be an effective communicator, get to know the very person closest to you: yourself.

    1. What you know.
    Education is all about learning the basics, but to be an effective speaker is to practice what you’ve learned.

    2. Listening.
    It’s just as important as asking questions. Sometimes listening to the sound of your own voice can teach you to be a little bit confident and to say the things that you believe in.

    3. Humility
    We all make mistakes, and sometimes we tend to slur our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certain words even though we know what it means, but rarely use it only to impress listeners. So in a group, don’t be afraid to ask if you’re saying the right word properly and if they’re unsure about it then make a joke out of it. I promise you it’ll make everyone laugh and you can get away with it as well.

    4. Eye Contact
    There’s a lot to say when it comes to directing your attention to your audience with an eye-catching gaze. It’s important that you keep your focus when talking to a large group in a meeting or a gathering, even though he or she may be gorgeous.

    5. Kidding around
    A little bit of humor can do wonders to lift the tension, or worse boredom when making your speech. That way, you’ll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and they’ll feel that you’re just as approachable, and as human to those who listen.

    6. Be like the rest of them
    Interaction is all about mingling with other people. You’ll get a lot of ideas, as well as knowing what people make them as they are.

    7. Me, Myself, and I
    Admit it, there are times you sing to yourself in the shower. I know I do! Listening to the sound of your own voice while you practice your speech in front of a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And while you’re at it you can spruce up as well.

    8. With a smile
    A smile says it all much like eye contact. There’s no point on grimacing or frowning in a meeting or a gathering, unless it’s a wake. You can better express what you’re saying when you smile.

    9. A Role Model
    There must be at least one or two people in your life you have listened to when they’re at a public gathering or maybe at church. Sure they read their lines, but taking a mental note of how they emphasize what they say can help you once you take center stage.

    10. Preparation
    Make the best out of preparation rather than just scribbling notes and often in a hurried panic. Some people like to write things down on index cards, while other resort to being a little more silly as they look at their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). Just be comfortable with what you know since you enjoy your work.

    And that about wraps it up. These suggestions are rather amateurish in edgewise, but I’ve learned to empower myself when it comes to public or private speaking and it never hurts to be with people to listen how they make conversations and meetings far more enjoyable as well as educational.

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